I am still working on this although it was rough initially . . . once I finally convinced myself I didn't have to write on a certain schedule, I was all good :-) . . I do write sporadically on random topics and from my heart . . and, although he may find he knows me well from reading my blog, my blog writing is often deliberately vague as a matter of self-protection . . . the letter to my future husband has so much more depth . . . hoping he will find this a blessing!!